Dr. Dhruv Bhola
Best Psychosexologist and Sex Therapist in Gurgaon, India | Specialist in Psychogenic Sexual Disorders
As a trained clinical psychologist, I understand the deep emotional and cognitive patterns that drive our behaviors.
As a certified sexologist, I specialize in the science of intimacy, desire, and sexual function.
Together, these fields merge into my unique identity as a psychosexologist, someone who treats sexual issues at their psychological root, not just their symptoms.
Real Conversations. Real Healing. Real Intimacy
If you're here, you're likely carrying questions you can’t ask anywhere else.
Questions about your body, your sexual performance, your confidence, or the quiet fear that something just isn’t working the way it used to.
You might seem calm on the outside but inside, there’s stress, shame, and anxiety every time intimacy gets real.
Let me reassure you of one thing: you’re not alone.
And you’re not broken. You’re just overwhelmed by pressure, performance expectations, unresolved thoughts, or past experiences that are getting in the way of sexual connection.
I Help People Heal From the Inside Out
I’m Dr. Dhruv Bhola, a psychosexologist trained in both the psychological and sexual dimensions of male health.
My focus is on helping men overcome psychogenic sexual disorders such as:
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Erectile dysfunction that’s inconsistent or situational
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Premature ejaculation caused by anxiety or tension
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Delayed ejaculation or lack of sensation
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Loss of libido due to stress or emotional overload
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Performance anxiety that creates a mental block
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Compulsive masturbation or porn habits that disrupt real intimacy
These issues aren’t just about the body they’re about the mind-body connection.
And once we begin untangling what’s happening in your inner world, change becomes possible.
Why Choose Dr. Dhruv Bhola for Your Psychological and Sexual problems ?
My Approach Is Different, Because You Deserve More Than Pills
Most men don’t talk about these struggles. Instead, they quietly self-diagnose, self-medicate, or turn to over-the-counter pills hoping for a quick fix. Medications containing salts like Sildenafil and Tadalafil (found in most common ED pills) may help you perform in the moment but they’re not a cure.
These drugs work by artificially boosting blood flow but only while the salt is active in your system. Once it wears off, the anxiety, doubt, and underlying cause remain often stronger than before.
Over time, what starts as a “just once” solution becomes a habit. You may find yourself needing higher doses… then worrying whether it will work at all. This cycle doesn't just harm your sexual health it erodes your confidence, emotional stability, and natural arousal response.
And here's the truth:
If your issue is psychological in nature, no pill will fix what your mind hasn’t healed.
Instead of masking the symptoms, I help you address the root cause gently, safely, and naturally No pills. No pressure. Just clarity, conversation, and the right tools to help you reconnect with your body, your partner, and yourself.
Together, we’ll work on:
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Releasing mental and emotional pressure around sex
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Rewiring negative thought loops and performance fears
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Building sexual confidence without relying on medication
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Reclaiming natural desire, intimacy, and pleasure
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Creating healthier physical and emotional habits
“Pills are a temporary patch. Healing the mind is the permanent fix.”
I have been working alongside Dr. Sudhir Bhola, a globally renowned ayurvedic sexologist. Through this collaboration, I’ve developed a unique and effective approach that blends psychological insight with real-world strategies.
My work focuses on guiding individuals through confidential counselling sessions, tailored exercise routines, and lifestyle adjustments that support long-term improvement not just momentary relief. This method addresses the root cause of psychogenic sexual issues, helping clients rebuild confidence, connection, and control in their intimate lives.
Patient Testimonials
I was trapped in a cycle of anxiety and constant self-doubt, trying different treatments that never seemed to work. Meeting Dr. Dhruv Bhola was a turning point. He helped me realize that the issue wasn’t just physical it was deeply connected to my mind. With his support and understanding, everything started to make sense. For the first time in a long time, I feel like myself again. His approach is calm, non-judgmental, and truly focused on healing. I’m genuinely grateful for the clarity and confidence I’ve gained through his therapy.
Mumbai, India
I’ve been struggling with sexual health issues for a while and was hesitant to seek help. But Dr. Dhruv Bhola made me feel so comfortable from the start. His approach not only helped me physically but also addressed the emotional side of things. I’ve seen significant improvements, and I’m really grateful for his support. Highly recommend him if you’re going through something similar!
Delhi, India
Dr. Dhruv Bhola is incredibly compassionate and easy to talk to. His guidance helped me overcome deep-rooted anxiety and relationship challenges with empathy and professionalism. I felt truly heard and supported throughout the process. Highly recommended for anyone seeking expert psychological or sexual health support.
Bangalore, India
Personalized one-on-one sessions designed to help you understand and overcome the psychological roots of your sexual health concerns.
Areas commonly addressed:
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Erectile dysfunction (psychogenic origin)
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Premature or delayed ejaculation
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Low libido and arousal issues
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Porn-induced dysfunction
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Compulsive or excessive masturbation habits
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Shame, guilt, and internalized sexual anxieties
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Impact of past sexual trauma or negative experiences
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Developing a healthy and sustainable relationship with intimacy
Services Offered
Relationship-focused therapy to improve emotional intimacy, communication, and sexual connection between partners.
Focus areas include:
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Rebuilding intimacy and trust
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Navigating mismatched libidos or sexual frustration
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Managing performance anxiety as a couple
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Understanding each other's sexual needs
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Healing after infidelity or emotional disconnect
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Enhancing emotional safety and mutual satisfaction
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Breaking the silence around sexual struggles together
Performance Anxiety Management
Targeted strategies to overcome fear, pressure, and overthinking during intimacy.
What this includes:
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Identifying psychological blocks and triggers
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Mindfulness-based relaxation techniques
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Mental reframing exercises
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Confidence-building strategies
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Managing expectations around sexual performance
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Breaking the cycle of anticipatory anxiety
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Developing a healthy, pressure-free sexual mindset
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